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  INDIAN MARRIED LIFE 

The Undercurrents!


VED from VICTORIA INSTITUTIONS


This book was written by me some years ago, when a prominent publisher from New Delhi gave me this specific topic to write on. However, I did not complete the writing to my own satisfaction. Even today, a huge part of what I had planned to write still remains inside my head.

When I recently went through this writing, I found that it is having a lot of readable points. So, I am publishing this book in an as-it-is form. Since it was written for another publisher, with a specific aim, the writing style is slightly different from my current writing style. Moreover, it has a tone of an instructor imparting learning. I must admit that I cannot don the mantle of an instructor or coach in the subject matter that I have dealt with. However a lot of points have been discussed, which the reader may find quite interesting to ponder on.  

 Contents


Introduction

            Indian culture and languages


What all things to think of before agreeing to a marriage?

            Mental readiness

            Health

            Place of residence

            Mental attitude of the other family members

            Make it work

            Prospecting

            The maze of relationships

            Aversion for lowering of respect

            Appraisal by the servant class

            Cultural themes

            Knowledge of English

            The varying castes

            The attitude of the spouse

            A career girl

            Girls with superlative attributes

            A theme on leadership

            Government employees

            Ideological affiliations

            A factor of astrology

            Validating the information

            When love comes calling

            Forced association with the distasteful

            A bit of inside information


What all things to do to make it sustain?

            The vow

            Indulgences

            When the going gets tough

            The sacred precedence

            When contraries get attached

            A hero under duress

            Of being at home

            Partnership with sacred motives

            Marital peace

            Need of introspection

            Villain of the piece

             Being receptive to the confused messages

             The strange compulsions

             The factor of food


What are the pressures in married life?

          The complexities

           At the wifes house

   In the husbands house

   The impending competition for stature

   Acceding to the regimentation

  Aims

     What they seek

 Representing the spouse


What the husband requires

         A demeanour of respect

         The first causality and the staying power

         Appraisal by others

         The daily denigration

         The essential subordination of the wife

         A source of strain and discomfort

         Delaying an inescapable separation

         Fidelity and infidelity

         Insecurity and its foundations

         Managing insecure feelings

         Warding off irritations and following certain codes

         The exasperating scenarios

         Dealing with false demeanours and personalities

         Wifes special confident

         Husband as an appendage

         A social scene at home

         The spiritual potency in loyalty and the looming disasters in disloyalty

         Weird misgivings from afar

         The damsel in distress

         An unfair comparison

         The tragic indifference

         Wifes relatives as a boon or bane

         The vicious comparisons

         Being second in precedence

         The intruding relatives

         The retorting wives

         Financial duplicity

         When the path turns daunting

         Psychological affects connected to a sick social communication system

         The irritants

         The suspicious

         Those who stoop

         Approaches in regard to bringing up children


The experience of the wife

         The great uncertainty

         The conceding: limits and parameters

         Gathering respect

         The mystifying transformations

         Socialising with the uncouth

         The art of imbibing a poison

         The growing indifference

         The twilight period lasting a fortnight

         The dispensable companion

         The small pleasures that lend the sparkle

         The factor of Infidelity

         Enchantment at the distance

         The vibes of another woman

         Events, and companions, which lead one astray

         The flawed attractions

         The flawed contract


What is a good family life?

         The essential ingredients

         The imps

         Concealing the financial status

         Buying affection

Telepathic communication

Facing the morning

A matter of physical ease

Warming up, physically

An air of spontaneous communication and gaiety

On perceiving the cause of mental agitations

Irking factors

Intrusive counsellors as part of the problem

Reacting to provocations

The intelligence in deferring certain decisions

On diverging attitudes

On deceit as a way of livelihood

A theme on positive energy

Supernatural sciences and superstitions


The aspect of sex

            The Greek muscles and the alluring curves

            The first touch and the outburst of sensual emotions

            The minor distractions

            The strangled mental mood

            The exquisite discoveries

            The consternation

            Masculinity and femininity

            The effect of downsizing

            The essential elements

            The growing apathy

            The sickening aspects

            Sensual dresses

            The irking coyness

            On the art of lovemaking

            The essentials of fondling

            Just a show of affection

            The caressing communication

            Painful penetration

            Frigidity as a dampening factor

            Finale with apathy

            Ponderings on innovative approaches

            Trivial factors that create major havoc

            When forbearance is required

            What you eat and drink

            Massaging as an act of conveying passion

            Sleeping with ones spouse

            What lovemaking can create

            The forbidden grounds

            Watching pornography together

            Sexual fantasizing

            Reading pornography

            Spouse swapping

    Seduction

            The restrains

 

CONSULTATION



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How to bring up children?

         Another individual with same emotions

         What to fill the new computer

         Choosing between the mediocre and the exceptional inputs

         An input of English music

         The positive effects of gracious communication

         Causative of squint and other connected themes

         The intermittent annoyance

         Visual inputs

         Learning swimming at an early age

         When the windpipe gets blocked

         Developing sense of balance and equilibrium

         Getting attuned to nature

         Independence in a secure mental atmosphere

         Mature response to intelligent queries

         Securing from immature attitudes

         Discourage attempts to create division

         Exposing to conducive attitudes

         Preventing persons of doubtful cultural qualities

         The benefits of reading

         Physical and mental battering

         Advises, obedience and rebellion

         The enduring incentives of conversational walks

         On using anomalous terms

         On the major theme of education of children

         Medium of education

         Inputting information

         The liberal attires

         Gender issues

         Hassle-free physical training

         Allowing boisterous attitudes

         Viewing good TV channels

         On learning music

         Learning computers

         Learning typing skills

         Revering your child

         Indoor games

         Solitary pursuits, as well as group activities

         Each child as a separate individual

         Parameters of masculinity as well as of femininity

         Examples and exemplary stances


Acknowledging the reality of class, and its implications on family relationships

            Distortion in sense

            Linking caste with vocation and to language

            Intellectual rather then physical

            Measuring the classes

            The English speaking class

           Class as different from quality

            A recipe for mental peace

            A female government employee marrying a common man

            The enwrapping enclosures

            The intimate zone

            Class as encoded in profession

            Class in forbidden areas

            Millstones and elevators

            Strings to the impenetrable levels

 

CONSULTATION



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